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Stress and Coping: How to Treat and Deal with Stress | TFF

Stress affects every one of us at some time or another. It can be caused by many different things, such as work, school, family problems, or health issues. When left untreated, stress can lead to a number of health problems. In this blog post, we will discuss how to treat and deal with stress. 

What is stress and what are the symptoms of stress

Stress is a natural response to feeling overwhelmed or challenged. When we experience stress, our bodies go into "fight-or-flight" mode, releasing hormones that help us to either confront the problem or flee from it. This fight or flight response can lead to physical symptoms such as a racing heart, tense muscles, and butterflies in the stomach. It can also cause us to feel irritable, anxious, or even depressed. 

While some amount of stress is normal and can even be helpful (it can motivate us to try harder or learn new things), too much stress can be detrimental to our health. Chronic stress can lead to serious health problems such as high blood pressure, heart disease, and even depression. Learning how to manage stress is essential for disease control and for maintaining our mental and physical health.

What are the 5 common causes of stress?

Stress is a natural physical and mental response to the demands of daily life. A small amount of stress can be beneficial, providing motivation and focus. However, chronic stress can have serious negative effects on our health. Some of the most common stress causes include work pressure, financial problems, relationship difficulties, and health issues. 

Recognizing the signs of stress is the first step in managing it effectively. These can include feeling overwhelmed, irritable, or anxious; experiencing physical symptoms such as headaches or stomach problems, or struggling to concentrate or remember things. By taking steps to reduce stress in our lives, we can improve our overall health and well-being.


Stress management and coping

When we talk about stress management and coping, we are usually talking about two different things. Stress management is about taking proactive steps to reduce the amount of stress in our lives. This might involve learning how to say "no," setting boundaries, and creating a support network. 

Coping, on the other hand, is about how we deal with stressors that are out of our control. This might involve deep breathing, journaling, or relaxation techniques. Both stress management and coping are important parts of maintaining our mental health. By taking steps to reduce our stress levels and developing healthy coping mechanisms, we can help to prevent burnout and promote a sense of well-being.

Treatments for stress 

Chronic stress is a problem that can have a negative impact on both your mental and physical health. There are many ways to treat stress, including lifestyle changes, medication, and therapy.

Lifestyle changes

Stress levels can be effectively managed with various strategies. One of the most important things you can do is to make sure you're getting enough exercise. Regular physical activity can improve your mood, help distract you from worries, relieve tension, and flush out stress hormones. 

In addition to exercise, there are other lifestyle changes you can make to help manage stress. For example, try to avoid alcohol and drugs, which can increase anxiety and stress levels. Eating a healthy diet is also important for managing stress. Make sure you're getting enough sleep, as lack of sleep can contribute to feelings of stress and anxiety



Stress can take a serious toll on your physical and mental health. It can be the result of a stressful event, such as a car accident, or it can be caused by everyday life concerns, such as job insecurity or financial worries. If you're feeling stressed, it's important to seek help from a doctor or other medical professionals. They can help you cope with stress and prevent it from damaging your health. 

In some cases, medication may be prescribed to help you manage stress. Medication can be an effective way to relieve stress, but it's important to take it as directed and to talk to your doctor about any potential side effects. 

Cognitive behavioral therapy

It's normal to feel stressed when faced with challenges in your life. But if stress is impacting your ability to function on a day-to-day basis, it might be time to seek out help. 

Cognitive-behavioural therapy (CBT) is a type of therapy that can be effective in treating stress and anxiety. CBT focuses on identifying and changing negative thought patterns in order to improve mood and reduce stress. CBT can be done in individual or group settings, and it typically lasts for 12-20 weeks. With the help of a certified expert in mental illness and health, CBT can help you learn how to manage stress in a healthy way.

Coping strategies

Stress is a part of life. It's how we deal with stress that can make a difference. There are many various strategies to cope with stress, which can be divided into five general categories:

Problem-focused coping

Problem-focused coping is a type of stress-coping strategy that involves taking active steps to address the source of stress. This can involve problem-solving, seeking social support, or changing one's environment. Problem-focused coping is most effective when stress is caused by an identifiable and changeable source, such as an upcoming deadline at work. In contrast, when stress is caused by an unchangeable source, such as a chronic illness, problem-focused coping may be less effective. 

Examples of problem-focused coping are:

  • Identifying the source of stress and taking steps to address it
  • Asking for help from friends or family
  • Taking a break from work or school

Emotion-focused coping

Emotion-focused coping is a type of strategy that involves acknowledging and accepting difficult emotions, rather than trying to avoid or suppress them. This type of coping can be helpful in situations where stress is unavoidable or when dealing with a major life event such as bereavement. When using emotion-focused coping, it is important to be mindful of how you are feeling and to allow yourself to experience the full range of emotions without judgment. This can be a difficult process, but it can help you to come to terms with painful events and to develop a more positive outlook. 


Examples of Emotion-focused coping are:

  • Accepting that you are feeling stressed
  • Writing about your experiences
  • Talking to a therapist or counselor

Social support

The belief that one is cared for, has assistance accessible from other people, and is part of a supportive social network is known as social support. This can be from family, friends, co-workers, or others. These relationships can offer practical or emotional support. The stress of daily life can take a toll on our physical and mental health. When we don't have supportive relationships, it can make stress harder to manage. Coping with stress is an important part of maintaining our health and well-being. Social support can help us to feel connected, loved, and valued. It can provide practical assistance and emotional comfort during times of need. 

Examples of social support are:

  • Asking friends or family for help
  • Joining a support group
  • Volunteering

Religious coping

Religious coping is another way that people deal with stress. It can involve turning to religion or spirituality for comfort, strength, and guidance. For some people, this may mean attending religious services, praying, or meditating. Others may find comfort in reading religious texts or talking to a clergy member. Some people use religious coping as a way to make sense of difficult life events, while others use it as a way to feel closer to God or a higher power. No matter how it is used, religious coping can be an effective way to reduce stress and promote mental well-being.

Examples of religious coping are:



Meaning-making is the process of assigning meaning to events or experiences in our lives. This can help us make sense of what is happening and give us a way to deal with stress in a healthy way. When we assign meaning to something, it can help us see the situation in a new light and find ways to cope that we may not have thought of before. Stress can be a difficult thing to deal with, but by making meaning out of our experiences, we can find ways to cope that work for us.

Examples of meaning-making are:

  • Writing about your experiences
  • Finding a support group
  • Stepping back and viewing the stressful situation as an opportunity to learn. 

These are just some of the ways that people deal with stress. What works for one person may not work for another. It is important to find what works best for you and to keep trying new things until you find a coping strategy that works.

Continue reading

Books can be a great way to learn more about stress management and how to cope with stress in a healthy way. There are a wide variety of books available on this topic. Here is a list of some of our favorites:

  1. The Stress-Proof Brain by Melanie Greenberg
  2. The Relaxation and Stress Reduction Workbook by Martha Davis, Elizabeth Robbins Eshelman, and Matthew McKay
  3. The Mindfulness Solution to Pain by Jon Kabat-Zinn
  4. Full Catastrophe Living by Jon Kabat-Zinn
  5. Wherever You Go, There You Are by Jon Kabat-Zinn
  6. The Untethered Soul by Michael A. Singer